I keep thinking what is it that makes a girl feels like that. Is it only in India or abroad too. Well i have no idea about the culture abroad but i am very much aware about India.
In India people are more bothered about others and not about themselves because they feel that their life is perfect and they are needed to make other lives perfect. You might think this funny but this is actually the scene.
A girl in India has to fight from right in the beginning. For her birth, For her studies, for her education. Here they are treated as mere commodities who are required to do all the labour work. Those who are uneducated feel that they need not educate their girl because ultimately she is going to get married so what benefit will that bring to their family. And those who are educated think that the girl should be educated so that she can get a better Husband.
I love the indian culture bur this whole gender inequality thing will take time. When will the people realise that there is more to a life than being a house wife. They are eqally competent. Let them go and choose their dreams.
Here you cannot stay alone for your whole life and hence you need to be married and raise children before you die of your old age in some old age home. That too is not guranteed since, you know today's generation.
For that girls have to get married as soon as possible( no clue why?) otherwise it would not be considered good for the society.
It is time that girls need to raise their voice and make people realise that life is just not for others.
All the best!
In India people are more bothered about others and not about themselves because they feel that their life is perfect and they are needed to make other lives perfect. You might think this funny but this is actually the scene.
A girl in India has to fight from right in the beginning. For her birth, For her studies, for her education. Here they are treated as mere commodities who are required to do all the labour work. Those who are uneducated feel that they need not educate their girl because ultimately she is going to get married so what benefit will that bring to their family. And those who are educated think that the girl should be educated so that she can get a better Husband.
I love the indian culture bur this whole gender inequality thing will take time. When will the people realise that there is more to a life than being a house wife. They are eqally competent. Let them go and choose their dreams.
Here you cannot stay alone for your whole life and hence you need to be married and raise children before you die of your old age in some old age home. That too is not guranteed since, you know today's generation.
For that girls have to get married as soon as possible( no clue why?) otherwise it would not be considered good for the society.
It is time that girls need to raise their voice and make people realise that life is just not for others.
All the best!
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